Toxic Charity Is a Ministry-Changing Book
Giving to those in need what they could be gaining from their own initiative
may well be the kindest way to destroy people.
-Robert Lupton
In a well reasoned case based on more than 30 years of experience, Robert Lupton’s book Toxic Charity challenges the good done by charities, especially churches, to state boldly that we most often hurt those we wish to help. Lupton is an Atlanta-based author whose day job is in urban ministry whose has created housing for hundreds of families while initiating a wide range of human services for the community. He is an empassioned advocate for Asset Based Community Development that works with people in need to improve.
In his decades of work on the front lines of urban ministry Lupton has found “doing for rather than doing with those in need is the norm” and goes on to write, “Add to it the combination of patronizing pity and unintended superiority, and charity becomes toxic.”
Lupton does not simply write against such cherished ministries as short-term mission trips, soup kitchens and clothes closests, but goes on to make a compelling argument for the fundamental problems and how to overcome them. Using not only examples from his own work, but also from the development work of many others, he demonstrates how to break out of an endless flow of one-way giving.
Lupton works from the twin ideas of mercy and justice which he points out have equal emphasis in scripture. As he writes, “The addict needs both food and treatment. The young woman needs both a safe place to sleep and a way out of her entrapping lifestyle. Street kids need both friendship and jobs.”
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Most importantly, Lupton writes for the need for ongoing relationships saying, “To effectively impact a life, a relationship must be forged, trust built, accountability established. Amd this does not happen in long, impersonal lines of strangers.”
I will say that his writing has shown me why our Companion Diocese of the Dominican Republic has been effective in changing the lives of those around their churches as they do there the hard work of development rather than merely providing services with no road out of trouble for those in need.
The ideas he presents for change are very hope filled, but they are not easy. He mostly wants to tap into the unlocked potential within those in need and to find ways to build that capacity. The 191-page book from Harper One is a quick read, but in my experience, it is not a book that leaves readers unchanged. I encourage you to read and reflect on this book with others, whether in a book study at church or clergy in preparation for a clericus discussion. We need to be challenged to move beyond harming those we most wish to help and in this book there is a roadmap for a more better way.
The Rev. Frank Logue
Canon to the Ordinary
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